Forbidden Fruit Dating www.forbiddenfruitdating.co.uk

In the market of extra marital dating most sites seem to just want you to give them money in exchange for ego flattering fake profiles. Not this one! It contains real profiles of real people from all walks of life all sharing a common need to meet others in similar straits. The forum and the socials mean it is easy to check that people are genuine and makes that first meeting a lot less daunting. For those who need help to dip that toe in the murky water of an ema there is a form of counselling available as well as the forum itself where real people will openly answer questions.

I wish I had found this site before wasting money on several others that whilst they are more 'popular' they are just not effective and the owners don't care - this site is more discerning, more personal and as results go for me anyway a brilliant solution!

Being new to online dating, and especially so to extra-marital dating, I was very nervous when starting out and tried 2 or 3 sites before I came across Forbidden Fruit Dating (FFD). With the other sites I felt that I was merely an open wallet, there to be regularly fleeced with expensive basic membership and constant encouragement to purchase extras such as virtual gifts. The number of ‘fake’ or scam profiles annoyed me too. On the point of giving up altogether I found FFD and decided to have one last attempt. What a refreshing change! Firstly, membership is excellent value for money compared to every other site I have come across. Secondly there are no extras to pay, just your membership. I was contacted by an obvious fake/scam profile so I thought I would report it. Amazingly the profile had already been deleted in less than 2 hours of being set up. This site actively polices what happens so that all members are safe.

Uniquely this site has a forum - a place for the serious and the fun. It is divided into 2, a public area and a member’s only area “Behind The Curtain”. Before a member can see “Behind The Curtain” they have to make 30 posts. This ensures only genuine people have access to the more private area. Here you can also find details of the various social functions, although for security reasons only confirmed attendees are given the exact time and place of a social shortly before the event. And what an event it is! Despite being nervous I attended my first social in August 2012. I was met at the station by the site owner and another member. I was assisted to my hotel and ensured I was safely installed at the chosen venue and introduced to the other attendees. What a warm and welcoming place it was with respect and fun in abundance. I have been a member of several clubs and organisations in real life and none has been as friendly as this place. I have been to several socials now and they have all been the same in this respect.

Membership is diverse too from the sophisticated professional to the ordinary person in the street, and cliques simply do not occur. Some people are more active than others but everyone is included, and there is no pressure to participate in a certain way. Members are also there for each other with help and advice on virtually everything. Whatever the question, there is usually someone with a measured and educated answer.

I honestly cannot imagine my life now without FFD. It has become a place I regularly enjoy. If you are looking for a good and honest site with genuine people look no further than FFD.

As a married lady seeking extramarital fun I have been a member of a number of married dating sites with differing results. I joined this one, firstly on the dating site alone, however I soon introduced myself on the forum.

The dating site is small, but growing, and the people that I have met on there are genuine, intellegent and sexy people.

I found the forum to be invaluable, as a source of any advice regarding extramarital dating and as a support network when things go wrong (and they do). The social events serve two purposes, one is to have a great night out with likeminded people who won't judge your behaviour, the other is to have somewhere to go with your lover and be able to talk freely to other people without fear of being caught out.

If you only join one site, and it's this one, please join in the forum also, it's what sets it apart from other sites. Don't think that we are a group of friends who have got together to start a forum, we are a group of forum members who over time have become friends.

This site is full of the most interesting people who treat everyone as a potential friend and every problem as a potential opportunity. It is the ultimate in a caring online community, for people who for one reason or another find difficulties in relationships.

Whether it's a relationship breakdown or a mid-life crisis, it's a one-stop shop for coming to terms with stuff and at the same time celebrating the joy of life.

I found this site through a recommendation, what I love is the forum, although at first it can appear a bit close knit, once you take the first step and start posting, everyone is very welcoming. There are a variety of subjects discussed, as well as flirting and jokes. You can get to know people in much more depth then with the usual dating site profiles. the second important difference with this site is the social meets - real people, real fun and it allows you to meet people outside of the normal "almost blind" date situation in a fun, safe, group environment. The owner is careful about security and privacy and works hard to keep it fun. It is smaller then most sites currently but growing day by day. I would recommend anyone to take a look and make your own mind up.

This is a newish site for married and attached people seeking a relationship outside their regular one. All the members seem to be genuine although the dating site is currently quite small. The best bit about this site is the lively discussion forum which is great fun and the social events which are organised by the site and some of the members. I found this a bit scary at first but they are very security conscious and the events are a real blast! Everyone made me feel so welcome and relaxed and I even met someone special and we had a brief but lovely relationship. It's free for women to join and the rates for men are very reasonable, far more so than some of the larger sites out there. A fun site for naughty people, just needs more members.